6 yrs together, 2 of em married, and I still have a crush on my husband!! Here are a few things I’ve learned along the way.
All in Relationships
Moon Reading: New Moon in Cancer
In true Cancerian form I gave myself permission to enjoy an extended wedding reception celebration with my beloved Husband whom I wed in our backyard two short blissful years ago and celebrated with family a week ago. We’re doing things in a flow that makes sense for our life and creating new rituals, traditions and ways of being. I purposefully picked the date of our wedding reception/family reunion/house party to coincide with the new moon in Cancer as this moon brings the Ancestors close and is the BIG ONE for clarifying the caliber, quality and condition of what you consider your Family. It’s about creating and supporting spaces and communities that feel like home and reconnecting with your relations in fresh new ways. The big work lies in focusing on the relationships that nourish you and the folks that sing your praises in an era where toxic and confusing relationships get the most air time. Did I mention it was big work? Read on for more New Moon insight.
I'll be at Refuge Festival!
I'm so excited to not only attend, after years of fangirling from the sidelines, but hold a Breathwork Ceremony at this BIPOC centered weekend camping event this August 18-20. We'll be reconnecting with nature and celebrating just 40 minutes east of Seattle in the Cascade Mountain foothills.
Happy Mother's Day, You Are Queens
They don’t tell you this when the people you love die but…
Happy Loving Day!!!
I’m the Black half of an interracial couple and I have a LOT of feels about it.
Maybe other Black folks in interracial partnerships can understand this but somewhere, deep inside, I experience feelings of guilt because my partner is White….
Moon Reading: New Moon in Libra
Happy New Moon in Libra!! New Moons bring an opportunity for a fresh new start or a retooling/revamp of what you already have going on. In Libra this can look like a true effort to redefine what balance looks like in YOUR life (not someone else's!), intrigued??
Semi Woo Moon Reading: Full Super Flower Blood Eclipse Moon in Sagittarius 2021
Happy Full Flower Super Blood Eclipse Moon in Sagittarius(at the eve of Gemini Season!) WOWZA!! We’re coming in hot to a Full Moon in Fire Sign Sag that is being fanned by the winds of Air Sign Gemini.
Happy Birthday To My Capricorn Dad
I'm an Aquarius who was raised by 2 Capricorns which manifested into a real life cliche where an uber traditional Marine Corp Colonel and a pious Christian school teacher we're tasked to raise the Wild Woman before you today.
How To Renegotiate A Relationship That Isn't Working
Are you in one of those heavy relationship moments that asks: Should I stay or should I go?! Chances are, if you're evaluating the worth of one of your relationships, you're evaluating your Life on the whole. It'd be really choppy to step into a new life and work to retain the same cast of characters. As we grow, things come and go out of our bubble, people included, it's just how it works.
Happy Thanksgiving Day!
Somewhere along the way the meaning of Thanksgiving was....let's just say diluted since vanquished is a bit dramatic. Mindless gorging, Black Friday death scrambles and dreaded family arguments are some of the things that make us roll our eyes when we think about that last Thursday in November.
LET'S RECLAIM THANKSGIVING!
Deep Friendship Healing in the Desert
I just spent a week of expansion and healing with one of my closest friends, spirit sister and long time creative project partner. We spent time talking deeply and openly, partaking in a few plant medicine ceremonies and in meditation in San Diego, Palm Desert and Joshua Tree. WE ARE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT PEOPLE than when we started the week.
S1E13: Climate Change of Heart
We get to hang with Paul Gambill: a Seattle enviro-tech entrepreneur who’s at the forefront of reversing climate change. Bitcoin, polyamory and shoes made of carbon truly make Paul a modern day Renaissance man.